Mirror Mirror on the wall, what curls are the prettiest of them all? ALL OF THEM! For those of you who aren’t familiar with the term “4C Curls,” it’s a specific type of curl pattern within the natural hair world. Black Girl Hair Magic has so much diversity that we had to break it down into types which help us know what hair products cater best to our hair. Now, I’m sure there are hair types for all ethnicities, but this post is focused on what I’m familiar with and experience. Type 4 hair is described as tightly coiled, coarse, and one of the most common hair types found in African American Hair. There’s a lot more detail explaining hair types, but that’s just the top of the surface information. SO! As common as 4C hair is said to be, unfortunately, it doesn’t receive as much celebration and love as other hair types. Let me break it down: Looser curl textures have been coined as pretty natural hair as opposed to a tighter texture, like my hair which has been called “nappy”. The way nappy is said most definitely comes with a negative connotation. That’s from my very own experience as well as what I’ve seen within the community. People with my texture have also been charged more in the hair salon because our hair is said to take much more work. It’s very unfortunate but true. I’ve even had some of my followers reach out to me sharing their personal and very vulnerable natural hair stories. One of my very sweet supporters allowed me to share her story: This. This got me. No one should ever have to feel uncomfortable with displaying what God gave them. HE MAKES NO MISTAKES. Here’s another example to show you some of the challenges that come with having natural thick hair. Click below: Although society has their own standard of beauty, we do not have to conform to what they say is acceptable. As I write this, I’m encouraging myself too, because it gets hard at times going against the grain even when you know what you’re doing is right. But if we stick together and celebrate each other, it will help the journey of each of us appreciating all the unique ways God created us much easier. I represent 4C Hair type women because I saw a significant gap in representation. So here I am today, using my platforms to make sure that 4C women feel equally as celebrated and admired as other hair types. Continue to follow my social media platforms for tips and advice on 4C Hair.
If you’ve never heard that your hair is beautiful, let me be the 1st to say…YOUR HAIR IS GORGEOUS!!! Stick with it sis. Xoxo, ABnormally Ab
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LaRonda Robinson
6/12/2019 08:14:01 am
Somewhere there is a 4C Sistah shouting “Thank you, Ab!”
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Abigail
6/14/2019 02:27:29 pm
It's my pleasure and my purpose! Thank you for supporting, Laronda! Love you
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Abigail
6/14/2019 02:31:49 pm
Power to us! We have to represent for each other! Thank you and thank you for reading!
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Lauri
6/12/2019 10:17:34 am
This is amazing! I can sooo relate! I have so many of my own stories, and I have learned to love every cool and every piece of thickness my hair has to offer. Thank you for showing up, empowering and continually enlightening others.❤
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Abigail
6/14/2019 02:34:40 pm
Yes! It has definitely been a journey for me learning to love my hair and appreciating all that comes with it. It's my pleasure and my purpose. Thanks for reading!
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Traneita
6/12/2019 11:18:04 am
Represent for the 4C naturalistas!! GORGEOUS!!!!
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Abigail
6/14/2019 02:36:06 pm
Got to!! Thanks love! I appreciate you for reading!
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LaToya
6/12/2019 11:44:46 am
Thank you for writing this! It’s so important and sometimes it feels like we’re all alone out here. You’re really making a difference. Keep doing you girl! 🙌🏾❤️
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Abigail
6/14/2019 02:39:03 pm
You're so welcome! It is very important! It's easier to be on this journey with supportive people that understand your plight. We're helpers to one another. Thank you for reading!
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Queen
6/13/2019 02:09:48 pm
Thank you For this ! 4c is tough to care for but that is because it requires extra love and attention to maintain hair so delicate and beautiful!! I love my 4c curl ❤️❤️
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Abigail
6/14/2019 02:41:08 pm
My pleasure! I love how you described that. 4C is indeed delicate and very beautiful:) Thanks for reading!
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I found your story on Utube and loved it. I think your lifestyle is wonderful. As for those who have the gull to tell you that you are oppressing all women, tell them that you are liberated by your corset as they have to run to the bathroom and stick their fingers down their throats to accomplish the same. And remember that these are the same women that will attack other women that they deem not living what they believe is up to their standards. Which is basically their 'double standards'. These women complain about pollution, yet use disposable diapers (that's when they are killing their babies to stop the quote 'overpopulation problem' as they fight to keep mass murderers alive), paper towels, wipes, and I could go on and on. These are the people that sent our jobs overseas to help other Countries live better. Have you seen a picture of China lately? People have to wear mask to go outside because the air is so foul. I guess these intelligent people haven't realized that China is on the same planet as we are. But, I digress. All I am saying asking is how do you retrain yourself from laughing in their faces. I applaud you for living the way you want to live. I have loved the crafts and styles of earlier times since I saw a woman weaving cloth. When my children were small, I made their bread, butter, and jams as well as canned their fruits and vegetables. I used cloth diapers and found it no harder than using disposable. And yes, I hung them out to dry as well. Nothing smells sweeter than sheets dried on the line. I may own a Serger, but I still love my pedal powered Singer. I guess what I am saying is that I have had a toe in both worlds for decades. Stay who you are as you are more woman than those who claim that you are oppressing them ever will be. After all, you are being who you want to be.
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